{"id":4927,"date":"2026-04-13T16:40:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-13T15:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dumonceau-urologie.fr\/urology\/prostate-and-sex-life-what-every-man-should-know\/"},"modified":"2026-09-10T13:57:48","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T12:57:48","slug":"prostate-and-sex-life-what-every-man-should-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dumonceau-urologie.fr\/en\/urology\/prostate-and-sex-life-what-every-man-should-know\/","title":{"rendered":"Prostate and sex life: what every man should know"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"100%\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dumonceau-urologie.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/prostate-et-vie-sexuelle-ce-que-chaque-homme-devrait-savoir-vtb-69e23817ed708.jpg\" alt=\"Video thumbnail for &#39;Prostate and sex life: what every man should know&#39;\" style=\"max-width: 100%;height: auto\"><\/p>\n<p> When a man thinks about his prostate, it&#39;s often not the prostate itself that worries him most. The real question, the one that comes up constantly in consultations, concerns sexuality. Will I continue to have normal erections? Will my libido change? Will I still be able to ejaculate normally after treatment?<\/p>\n<p> These are legitimate questions. The prostate and sexuality are closely linked, primarily because urinary problems and sexual dysfunction often appear around the same time in life, generally from the age of 50. But it&#39;s important to distinguish between two things: <strong>prostate diseases themselves<\/strong> and <strong>the potential consequences of their treatments<\/strong> .<\/p>\n<p> In most cases, it is not prostate adenoma or prostate cancer that directly affects sexuality. However, certain treatments can have an impact, sometimes temporary, sometimes permanent. Understanding these effects allows for more informed choices.<\/p>\n<h2> What we really call \u201csexuality\u201d in men<\/h2>\n<p> Before discussing the prostate, it&#39;s important to remember that male sexuality isn&#39;t limited to erections. It encompasses several distinct dimensions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong>Libido<\/strong> , that is to say sexual desire, longing, arousal.<\/li>\n<li> <strong>The erection<\/strong> , with its quality, rigidity and ability to be maintained until orgasm.<\/li>\n<li> <strong>Orgasm and ejaculation<\/strong> , which are not exactly the same thing, but are often associated in the sexual experience.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> A treatment can therefore modify one of these aspects without necessarily affecting the others. This is a crucial point, because many men confuse decreased ejaculation, loss of desire, and erectile dysfunction, when in fact these are different mechanisms.<\/p>\n<h2> Prostate adenoma: the disease does not impair sexuality, but some treatments can alter it.<\/h2>\n<p> Prostate adenoma, or benign prostatic hyperplasia, is extremely common with age. As long as it causes few symptoms and does not require treatment, there is no reason for it to have a direct impact on sexuality.<\/p>\n<p> It is when treatment begins that possible side effects should be discussed.<\/p>\n<h3> Plant extracts<\/h3>\n<p> When urinary symptoms are mild, herbal extracts can be a good starting point. These treatments are used to improve urinary comfort and have the advantage of being well-tolerated.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>They have no side effects on erections or ejaculation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3> Alpha blockers: effective on urinary flow, but with a risk to ejaculation<\/h3>\n<p> When natural treatments are no longer sufficient, alpha-blocker medications are often prescribed, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> tamsulosin,<\/li>\n<li> alfuzosin,<\/li>\n<li> silodosin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> These medications are often very effective in improving urinary flow. However, they can cause what is known as <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/fr.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/%C3%89jaculation_r%C3%A9trograde\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">retrograde ejaculation<\/a><\/strong> .<\/p>\n<p> In practical terms, at the moment of orgasm, semen is no longer expelled externally. It travels back up to the bladder and mixes with the urine. There is <strong>no danger<\/strong> or <strong>medical concern<\/strong> . After intercourse, the semen is simply eliminated in the urine.<\/p>\n<p> However, this phenomenon can alter sexual sensations and impair the quality of pleasure in some men.<\/p>\n<p> The risk of retrograde ejaculation with alpha-blockers varies depending on the molecule, from <strong>15 to 50%<\/strong> . This is why the choice of treatment must always take into account a very simple element: <strong>how important is ejaculation to you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p> It&#39;s a personal question, but it must be asked before prescribing.<\/p>\n<h3> Finasteride and dutasteride: an action on the prostate, but also on sexuality<\/h3>\n<p> There is another class of medications that affect prostate size by altering hormonal metabolism. The best known are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> finasteride,<\/li>\n<li> dutasteride.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> These treatments can reduce prostate volume, which is helpful in some cases of benign prostatic hyperplasia. However, because they interfere with hormonal mechanisms related to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.inserm.fr\/dossier\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">testosterone<\/a> , <strong>they can decrease libido<\/strong> , or sexual desire.<\/p>\n<p> Here again, the issue is not just urinary. The expected benefit and the possible impact on intimate life must be weighed.<\/p>\n<h2> When medication is no longer sufficient: what are the effects of surgical or minimally invasive treatments?<\/h2>\n<p> When symptoms become more bothersome or medication is no longer effective enough, interventional treatments are considered. Here too, not all procedures have the same impact on sexuality.<\/p>\n<h3> Endoscopic laser resection or enucleation of the prostate<\/h3>\n<p> The most well-known treatment involves removing the internal part of the prostate, i.e., the adenoma, endoscopically. Today, this is very often done with a laser.<\/p>\n<p> From a sexual perspective, two things should be remembered:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong>There is no effect on erections<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<li> <strong>Ejaculation becomes permanently retrograde<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> The difference with medication is significant. With alpha-blockers, ejaculation returns to normal when treatment is stopped. After adenoma surgery, however, this change is permanent.<\/p>\n<p> This is therefore a major point to discuss before the intervention.<\/p>\n<h3> Urolift: a minimally invasive option that preserves ejaculation<\/h3>\n<p> Today there are minimally invasive treatments designed specifically to relieve urinary symptoms while limiting the impact on sexuality.<\/p>\n<p> <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.urologyhealth.org\/urology-a-z\/u\/urolift\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Urolift<\/a><\/strong> involves placing small implants inside the prostate to separate the prostatic tissue and open the urethra. It can be compared to a form of internal stapling of the prostate.<\/p>\n<p> Its main purpose is clear:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> improvement of urinary stream<\/li>\n<li> <strong>very low risk of retrograde ejaculation<\/strong><\/li>\n<li> <strong>no alteration of erections<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> For men who are particularly keen to preserve ejaculation, this is an important option to know about.<\/p>\n<h3> Rezum: Water vapor to treat adenoma with minimal sexual impact<\/h3>\n<p> Another minimally invasive technique is <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chumontreal.qc.ca\/fiches-sante\/bien-se-preparer-traitement-pour-prostate-traitement-vapeur-deau-rezum\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rezum<\/a><\/strong> . The principle is to inject water vapor into the prostate in order to retract and soften the prostatic tissue.<\/p>\n<p> Here again, the goal is to treat urinary obstruction while preserving sexual function as much as possible.<\/p>\n<p> Key points to remember:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong>The risk of loss of ejaculation or retrograde ejaculation is low<\/strong> , less than 5%.<\/li>\n<li> <strong>Erections are not affected<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> For many men, especially those who want to avoid the classic side effects of adenoma surgery, this strategy represents an attractive compromise.<\/p>\n<h3> Prostate embolization<\/h3>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/tests-procedures\/embolization\/about\/pac-20385010\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prostate embolization<\/a> involves causing a kind of targeted infarction of the prostate by blocking the arteries that feed it, in order to reduce its size.<\/p>\n<p> On a sexual level:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong>The risk of erectile dysfunction is considered to be nil<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<li> In <strong>5 to 25% of cases<\/strong> , patients may notice a decrease in the amount of ejaculate.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> In other words, the erection is preserved, but ejaculation may be slightly less abundant.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p> When choosing a treatment for prostate adenoma, it&#39;s not enough to simply consider whether it improves urinary symptoms. You also need to consider what it preserves in terms of sexual function.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2> Prostate cancer: sexual effects depend mainly on the type of treatment<\/h2>\n<p> For prostate cancer, the situation is different. There is not one single treatment, but several approaches, and each has a specific profile regarding sexuality.<\/p>\n<h3> Robot-assisted radical prostatectomy<\/h3>\n<p> When surgical treatment is indicated, a <strong>radical prostatectomy<\/strong> is performed, meaning the complete removal of the prostate gland. For many years, this procedure has been largely performed using robotic surgery, particularly with the Da Vinci robot.<\/p>\n<p> The advantage of this technique is that it allows for more precise dissection and therefore better preservation of the <strong>erectile nerves<\/strong> , when they can be preserved.<\/p>\n<p> This does not mean that there are never any consequences for sexuality, but robotic surgery has clearly improved the quality of nerve preservation.<\/p>\n<h3> Radiotherapy<\/h3>\n<p> Radiation therapy is another classic treatment option for prostate cancer. It can be very effective, but it&#39;s important to know that the radiation can reach and damage the erectile nerves.<\/p>\n<p> The sexual impact is therefore not necessarily immediate, but it can appear over time.<\/p>\n<h3> Focal treatments<\/h3>\n<p> There are also <strong>focal treatments<\/strong> , which aim to treat only the tumor area instead of treating the entire prostate.<\/p>\n<p> These techniques offer <strong>very good results for erections<\/strong> , making them particularly attractive from a functional standpoint. However, their long-term effectiveness in controlling cancer is still being evaluated.<\/p>\n<p> In other words, they are promising, but they are not suitable for all situations.<\/p>\n<h3> Hormone therapy: when testosterone is suppressed<\/h3>\n<p> In some cases of prostate cancer, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chudequebec.ca\/patient\/maladies-soins-et-services\/traitements-et-examens\/traitements\/l-hormonotherapie-pour-le-cancer-de-la-prostate.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hormone therapy<\/a><\/strong> is necessary. The principle is to slow the progression of cancer cells by suppressing testosterone secretion.<\/p>\n<p> And here, the sexual consequences are very clear:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong>More testosterone, more libido<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<li> <strong>And without libido, erections very often disappear<\/strong> .<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> This is probably one of the treatments that has the most significant impact on sexual life, because it acts directly on the hormonal engine of desire.<\/p>\n<h2> Key points to remember before choosing a prostate treatment<\/h2>\n<p> There is no single answer that works for everyone. Two men with the same prostate, the same adenoma, or even sometimes the same cancer will not necessarily make the same choices. Why? Because their priorities are not the same.<\/p>\n<p> For some, the main goal is to urinate better and more easily. For others, preserving ejaculation is essential. For still others, the absolute priority is controlling the cancer, even if it means accepting more side effects.<\/p>\n<p> Before making any decision, several points need to be clarified:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong>Your actual urinary discomfort<\/strong><\/li>\n<li> <strong>The importance you place on erections<\/strong><\/li>\n<li> <strong>The importance you place on ejaculation<\/strong><\/li>\n<li> <strong>Your current level of sexual desire<\/strong><\/li>\n<li> <strong>The expected benefit of the proposed treatment<\/strong><\/li>\n<li> <strong>The temporary or permanent nature of the side effects<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> This discussion should be an integral part of the care plan. Too often, we talk about urinary flow rate, PSA levels, prostate volume, or imaging, and not enough about intimate life. Yet, for many men, it is a crucial element of their quality of life.<\/p>\n<h2> A simple message: treat the prostate without neglecting sexuality<\/h2>\n<p> The good news is that today there are many options. Between medications, minimally invasive treatments like Rezum or Urolift, laser surgery, prostate embolization, robotic surgery for prostate cancer, radiotherapy or focal treatments, there are real possibilities for adapting to each patient&#39;s profile.<\/p>\n<p> The wrong approach is to believe that all treatments are equally effective sexually. This is not the case.<\/p>\n<p> Some have virtually no effect on erections. Others primarily affect ejaculation. Still others act directly on libido via testosterone. Hence the importance of clear information before starting.<\/p>\n<p> The prostate shouldn&#39;t be viewed solely as a urinary or cancerous issue. It also plays a role in sexual life, self-image, and the balance of a relationship. That&#39;s precisely why it&#39;s essential to discuss these topics openly, without embarrassment or taboo.<\/p>\n<p> Choosing a prostate treatment therefore always means seeking a balance between medical effectiveness and quality of life. And sexuality plays a vital role in this quality of life.<\/p>\n<h2> Video<\/h2>\n<pre><code class=\"language-html\"><video><\/video><\/code><\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a man thinks about his prostate, it&#39;s often not the prostate itself that worries him most. 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